I visited your grave for the 2nd time today and was able to take Sue with me. She had not felt strong enough to be there on your birthday (28/8/08) when I last visited The Sustainability Centre Nr Petersfieldwhich is where your body is laid to rest. It was thick with snow and snowing as we stood with you, adding our little message, a bunch of your favourite yellow roses and some bird feeding fat balls on the tree you are resting under. Your Mum has been visiting and has surrounded you in spring daffodils which are peaking up through the ground. They will look pretty when in flower. Phil had left a valentine card for you which was beautiful. Sue and I left with wet and cold feet and as we had intended went to the near by pub to spend time together. Talking of you and our live, our famileis, children, friends. It was beautiful and I know you would have enjoyed the day which is what we wanted. I miss you every day Karen and I know that although you are no longer with us in this world physically, that you will live on in all of us that love and miss you.